Every now and then, being in a relationship at this current era may of course not be trouble-free. It is easier judging from the outside ...
Every now and then, being in a relationship at this current
era may of course not be trouble-free. It is easier judging from the outside
than judging from the inside. That is possibly
why occasionally you may see some
relationships that you my actually come to a conclusion that both partners look
so great from afar, the guy maybe be presently proclaiming the love he has for
her on Facebook,Twitter and also on Instagram
all year long .And you are on the other side thinking of how ideal they look together. In
the intervening time on the inside behind closed doors, the guy at hand probably
uses her as his own punching bag. Honestly, I must say for the fact that there are
no written rules or tips on how to make your relationship work but there are a small
amount of things you can look out for when your relationship is on the rocks.
1. You must be able to trust your partner: This is one of
the first and foremost tip you have to look for in every relationship. As a
matter of Fact, True love is basically based on trust. When you trust your partner,
or there is an ingredient of trust in the relationship, both partners can go a very
long way without any kind of challenge. This particular aspect can save your
relationship from turning sour and unpleasant. When you trust your partner, you
can tell the difference between a false advice and a good one. The short and
long of it is that, Trust goes a lengthy way in helping each other.
2. Avoid broadcasting your relationship on social media
platforms. This is one kind of deadly mistake upcoming youngsters who are
currently in a relationship tends to make. In this situation, you are revealing
to the whole world what you are about, hence giving outsider’s hints about
whatever is going on. When we are in love, we would like all and sundry to know
it. I must say that there is nothing wrong with that because the true feeling
of love is beyond description. But my issue is that at the same time, not every
one of your friends of family members is happy to hear your accomplishment or
what your guy bought for you. Some people just pretend to try and smile at you
on the outside and as a matter of fact don’t really care about you deep inside
them. The basic truth of the matter is,
when this happens, your life becomes their source of entertainment.
3. Avoid listening to
gossip: This is predominantly for those who have popular boyfriends of which
they are dating at the moment. You are on your own and someone calls you and
says,; “Hey Angie, I saw your Guy with
one sort of girl I heard this, I heard that etc.Please don’t get me wrong, as a
matter of fact” I am not insinuating you should try and play deaf to the whole
lot you hear for the reason that you might just be the one to be laughed at, at
the end of the day. My argument is that do not listen to everything you hear. Try as
much as possible to close your ears to false rumours.
4. Avoid going to bed upset with each other: This is one of
the vital part you need to take notes of. When you have an arguments with each
other due to some few misunderstandings, try as much as possible to make peace with
each other before bedtime. If you are the type that you think this is like a
burden or something quite difficult, just
try to ask yourself this question, ‘If he
unfortunately ends up dying in his sleep, will I be able to by any means forgive myself for the rest of my life?’ Please
try not to make a tiny problems you have
with each other look so big when you definitely
know it’s not.
5. Stay away from involving third-parties: At whatever time
you have issues with your partner; avoid looking for advice from a third-party.
This kind of idea goes a long way cause a lot of damage in relationships. Avoid
go running to his parents or guardian to file a report of your partner as soon as things basically goes wrong. Avoid the Habit of talking to close friends/mates and as well giving them too much information about your
relationships. When you give out those valuable information about your relationship.
Your friends at most times end up giving
you wrong advises and it goes a long way of causing a major strain that hardly can it be fixed. Perhaps once in a while you can but
avoid always running to other people
each and every time you have a setback s
with your partner.
6. Be Honest: I must say for the fact that basically
honestly is the best policy in a relationship. Until the end of time be honest
to your partner, no matter what. I am sure you basically would not want to be
in a relationship which is based on lies. No matter how thorny the truth might
be, make it a point you always say the truth. You might be at the point of
being surprised at what you partner can forgive. This takes me to my next point
7. Make It a Habit to forgive: One of the key ways in
which your relationship will work is to
learn to forgive and as well have a forgiving heart. It has been proven that forgiveness
goes a long way in whatever situation you find yourself in. Avoid holding on to
things that would rather hurt you the most. No one is perfect on this earth. In
relationships, there would be at on point in time days when you argue and
quarrel with each other. Not every day may be rosy but what makes the vast difference
is your readiness to let things go and go back to being happy which takes me to
my next point.
8. Learning to apologize: this point is linked to the stated
on above. At any time you offend your partner, you should learn and also make everything
possible to apologize to your partner. Don not let arrogance or any form of ego
set in. Say sorry when you are supposed to. also do not pray evil for evil.
9. You Have to be prayerful: After all these points that i
have elaborated above, the truth is that we are still human beings and we are just
not perfect. There is no man or woman on this earth who does not have flaws.
Whether you are a Muslim or a Christian or any other form of religion you run
through, make it a duty to pray to God to guide you and your partner in your
relationship.
